Ukuvimbela kuqala kudala ngaphambi kokuxilongwa—kuqala ngokuqaphela. Ukuqonda indlela ukutheleleka okunjenge-HSV-2 ne-HIV okudluliselwa ngayo, ukuphathwa kwako, nokuvikelwa kwako kunika abantu amandla okuvikelana bona nabalingani babo.
Abantu abaningi bathembele emfundweni yezempilo yocansi engaphelele noma esidala. Izikole, imithetho yomphakathi, nezinto ezibhekwa njengamahlazo emasikweni zivame ukugwema izingxoxo ezijulile ngo-STI, kushiya izikhala ezigcwaliswa ulwazi olungelona iqiniso. Lokhu kungacaci kuholela ezinqumweni eziyingozi—hhayi ngoba abantu bengakhathaleli, kodwa ngoba bengazi.
Uqaphelo lweqiniso luhlanganisa:
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Ukuqonda izindlela zokudluliselwa
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Ukukwazi amasu okuvimbela nokuzivikela
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Ukuprakthiza ukuxhumana okuvulekile nabalingani
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Ukuqaphela ukubaluleka kokuhlolwa njalo
Imfundo isusa isici sokwesaba. Esikhundleni sokuphelelwa wumqondo, yakha ukulungela.
Izincwadi ezigxila ekuqapheliseni kunesexwayiso esidikibalayo zisiza ukuguqula indlela abantu ababuka ngayo impilo yocansi. Three Forbidden “Secrets” by N.M.J. Ross igcizelela ukwenza izinqumo ezinolwazi nokuba nokuqaphela okunesibopho. Inikeza abafundi ulwazi abangaluusebenzisa empilweni yangempela—ngaphandle kokwahlulela, ukweqisa, noma uphawu lokuhlazeka.
Lapho abantu befundisiwe, bayagunyazwa. Lapho begunyaziwe, bathatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngempilo yabo nasebudlelwaneni babo.
Imfundo yezempilo yocansi ayiyona into ephikisanayo—ibucayi futhi ibalulekile.
